About:
I am Joslyn Hillam. I have hair that naturally grows two colors (I have never colored my hair) and I am the creator of the Meliora Mentor, Motherhood Encourager. Meliora means better in Latin and one reason I feel I am here to help mothers, like me, find a ‘better’ life through changing their thoughts. Changing my thoughts has changed me for the better! Those thought changes have significantly helped in my pregnancies, 🤰 losing baby weight, in motherhood and my marriage👩❤️💋👨.
I am a thought enthusiast, Latter-Day Saint Christian, wife, and homeschooling mom of four. 🙌 After having my first child, I had a VERY difficult time being a stay-at-home-mom (SAHM). This was very hard and discouraging. 🙁Being a mom, and specifically a stay-at-home-mom had been my life goal/ dream/ aspiration, something I felt God wanted me to do and a call I wanted to answer. When the time came, it wasn’t at all how I envisioned it.🙁 I was drowning in negative thoughts that destroyed my ability to enjoy my role as a SAHM and felt hopelessly discouraged in my good goals.😩 Why were these good goals of mine SO HARD!?
Seven years later, and after listening to many inspired podcasts, reading many books📚, help from mentors, and seminars, and devoted prayer, I have overcome SO many limiting beliefs holding me back from reaching my goals in motherhood and as the woman I desired to be. Here are just a few milestones I have reached:
I have lost 45 pounds. Twice! 😲 After babies #3 and #4.
I have found thought tools 🛠to make VERY difficult pregnancies better.
I have found DEEP joy in being a stay-at-home-mom.🤱
I have SINCERELY enjoyed homeschooling my kids without feeling resentful or jealous.📓📖
And in this journey I. Found. Me. I found Joslyn. 🙌
ALL of this progress in my personal improvement and motherhood began with a THOUGHT and re-directing and training my thoughts.🤯 It took time, trial and error (learning from trial and error) and consistency but it has been SO worth it. If you are ready change your thoughts and make headway in your divine, motherly goals through small and simple mindset shifts, I can help YOU!❤️
I provide easy thought tools, do-able ideas you can implement immediately, and thinking that can revolutionize you as a Daughter of God raising His children! It is a powerful journey!❤️❤️❤️